In the past few weeks since beginning this blog, I have been asked “Why?” about several aspects of Love Toy Wisdom. So I have decided at this time to reply to, and in some ways, to reiterate, what I have already explained. Namely this:
We repeatedly and habitually tell our own hearts how much we love them, saying “I Love You” over and over, as a way of giving them the expression of the love…attention, affection, appreciation, acceptance, and allowance…that we may never have been given, or never got enough of when we were children. Why?
In order to ground Love into our being, as counter-conditioning for all the subconscious conditioning we picked up as little kids, we tell ourselves how much we are loved. This childhood subconscious conditioning has been running patterns in our minds and bodies that tell us we’re not good enough, or worthy of, or deserving of happiness, success, abundance, etc. and these fearful patterns wreck havoc on our relationships. We need to un-learn those years of deep hypnosis-like effect on our nervous system. Repetition is the way… especially out loud, spoken directly so as many of the senses can be reached in the process. Why?
It is important to reach all of the senses because that is the doorway through which we first received the original ideas that led to our belief that we are something separate from and other than a unique expression of the beautiful Divine being of the God Source Nature. It is like returning to the womb, or ground of creation with our statements. We are making up for it in all dimensions, time, and space and for all timelines we may find ourselves in.
It is also most certain that we do not get enough of that special love now, as so-called grown-ups, because in truth, as adults, we give ourselves very little opportunity to just play in the sandbox of self-love. Somewhere along the line we may have been taught that it is “selfish”, or “self-indulgent” or “self-centered” with the implication that these are “bad” things… that is, to be avoided at all costs. Which is just “propaganda” put out by the Tribe in order to preserve its rules and regulations, and as just a point of view and a judgment, easily overwritten by a mind equally capable of choosing for itself.
Once we get down to the basic energy, which is Love, then we have a tabula rasa for creating a new sense of who we really are, a new identity based on the truth, which is that there is no limit to the capacity of the human heart to give and to receive love. And of course, the blessing and the miracle is that when we can love whatever arises in our lives, because we have the essential strength of loving ourselves, then each experience in life is either reflecting that love or giving us opportunities to put it into practice. It’s all a win-win situation!
So, in summary, we follow LOVE TOY Wisdom…that is Loving the One You’re With… in order to anchor vibrationally the Love for which we have an opening, if not a craving, for in our hearts.
Matt Kahn, of True Divine Nature, calls it “The Love Revolution” and he explains it beautifully and with a transmission of energy that will also help to anchor something awesome in your heart. Watch his video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fFS84Jp1qfc and be sure to catch my next blog when I explain more about soul masturbation.